Posted by rainbowbrite on February 21, 2005, at 23:19:08
In reply to Re: how to cope and accept? » rainbowbrite, posted by TamaraJ on February 21, 2005, at 14:25:34
>sometimes we just need to disengage and take a step back and out of the situation until we are calmer and can get our point across without being harsh and unkind. But it doesn't mean that one has to let go of directness and assertiveness.
This is exactly whatI need to do in this situation! I know I do, its hard though. Unfortunatley I will never lose my assertiveness, soemtimes I wish I would. OR maybe just my anger.>-- Well, if you are abnormal then so am I :-) Ok, maybe not the best and most flattering indicator! Oh well, I will revel in my abnormality!
haha well you sound pretty normal so Ill take it as a compliment. But maybe abnormal is better, normal is no fun :)
Thanks
rain
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