Posted by rainbowbrite on February 21, 2005, at 13:23:31
In reply to Re: how to cope and accept? » rainbowbrite, posted by TamaraJ on February 21, 2005, at 11:57:09
Actually I made some progress on this, even though it was an accident I actually read a post in here, I thought I was in pscyhology, but I handled it.
-- Yes. But, IMHO, letting people know how you feel isn't just about the "I love you's" and the "you are important to me's", it is also (and, maybe more importantly) about the seemingly simple and inconsequential things we do that tell people we care. Sometimes it's about actions speaking louder than words perhaps. I have strong relationships with those around me who I care about, but I do have a strong, inherent tendency to close off at times. I am working on that
Oh me too. I am really good at closing up. actions are good but what about all the horrible things you say to people in general. Or I should say in my life maybe 2 people? do actions take it back or do words, I guess when I think about it actions are stronger since words are over-used at times. btw im not a b**tch by any means I just get frustrated by certain people and say whats on my mind kind or not :(.-- I'll say it again - you are not abnormal by any means :-)
you sure?? :-) thanks
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