Posted by ValerieF on October 31, 2003, at 11:00:57
In reply to Re: I know, posted by jeff g on October 31, 2003, at 10:42:54
HI Jeff...
I completely understand what you are going through and the feelings that you are having are the same as mine. I wonder what my ex is doing and if he is over me and what girls he is looking at and where he is... I know that this is the hardest thing, but you HAVE TO try and move on. I believe this girl is trying to make you jealous by telling you what she is doing. However, do not jump to conclusions... it is only going to make you more depressed and anxious...believe me, I know because that's how I am feeling. I trully feel that you should give yourself and your ex space. If things are meant to be, then they will be in the future, but it's important to have the time to heal and focus. Use this past relationship as a learning experience. I read in your post that you took her love for granted... now you should realize that when you get into another relationship to not take someones love for granted. YOU WILL find someone that will love you even more than this girl and when you do, you will not have a break up to realize how much YOU Love that person. Things happen for a reason and maybe this reason was to allow you to find someone better. Break ups are hard and I am going through the same... It has been a month since I broke up with my ex boyfriend, but time heals. Keep busy... go out with your friends.. force yourself too. If this is really painful, I suggest you seek out a therapist and help yourself in dealing with your pain.
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