Posted by LostGirl on December 4, 2003, at 12:43:16
In reply to Feeling so Much pain over Breakup.. please help, posted by jeff g on October 15, 2003, at 3:13:59
I'm sorry for your suffering, and all the advice is very good. I want to add one thing about the "soulmates" concept. I really truly do not believe there is just one person out there for each of us. My aunt and uncle were a great couple for 50 years, then he died. She met someone else, remarried, and they've been happy for about 15 years now. It in no way diminishes the love my aunt and uncle had, she was just able to move on. I often think if I grew up somewhere else, I would have dated different people and married someone other than my husband, and would have thought that was the right person for me. I think there are many opportunities to love out there. It's not easy to find it, but I believe we are compatable with many different people and it is just chance that brings us together. You might meet someone else great when you least expect it.
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