Posted by Gabbix2 on July 6, 2003, at 16:12:33
In reply to Re: I'm going nuts. » kara lynne, posted by whiterabbit on July 6, 2003, at 15:34:04
I have to agree here. I really do. Being "mad"
is not an excuse, its not an excuse for a 3 year old and its not an excuse for a grown man. Especially one who wasn't supportive of you in the first place. Perhaps if there was a lot of good, but you expressed feeling so lonely and emotionally distanced from him and then he did this!
Would you accept this from me, if I emailed you and said those things and then said "Sorry I was mad?"
I've been in 2 relationships like that, and the suck the soul from you, they slowly leech any vitality or self love you have. You start bracing yourself wondering if they are coming home, and if they do are they going to be friendly
The best days are the days where you get a friendly hello, and then are ignored and thats not living.
In one way, the relationship I was physically abused was easier to navigate because I "knew" it was wrong. I got out. The one's I had like this one, did the most damage because I didn't get out in time.
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