Posted by kara lynne on July 5, 2003, at 22:06:59
In reply to Re: Gabbi, it's Sadder Day » kara lynne, posted by Tabitha on July 5, 2003, at 18:54:03
Hi Tabitha,
Thank you for writing that. I need to hear it. He emailed and asked if he could just come over to say hello, for a hug and a pet for the cat. It was so hard to say no. I said it would be too hard, because I wanted more than a hug and a pet (although I was just saying how much I wanted a hug!).He doesn't even say he wants more anyway, so it's not like I have a better offer to consider. Maybe it's better that way, but I'm not sure. I wanted him to say he wanted more too. I said I couldn't just jump into the "friend" dimension with him. His last email was that friendship is all there is in this life, and without it there is nothing.
I didn't email him back. I'm just going to leave it for now. It was so hard not taking him up on the hug and the pet. But to read what you write helps. I'm sure we would go directly to jail.
Thanks Tabby. Good luck however it works out, and keep us posted.
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