Posted by saw on January 31, 2005, at 1:04:21
In reply to Re: 3 days - lst yr anniversary of Dad's passing, posted by corafree on January 30, 2005, at 14:24:12
Cora, I read your post slowly and it is so obvious that you are in a great deal of pain and that you are grieving so deeply for your Dad.
Have you gone to therapy to help you deal with your loss? If not, will you consider it?
<<How do people just 'accept' and 'believe' w/o question? That's my fleeting thought each day. Maybe it cannot be done? How does one do that?>>
I don't believe that we can just accept and believe without question. We can eventually come to accept, even believe, but without question? There are always questions. Just our fallible human nature I guess.
I think that it can be done, but that it takes time and patience and sometimes a little bit of external help.
You are not being selfish. Not at all. I am so sorry for your grief and wish there was somthing I could say to ease some of the hurt and loss you are feeling.
Sabrina
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