Posted by corafree on November 5, 2005, at 9:05:50
In reply to Re: Six days till lst yr anniversary of Dad's passing, posted by Jeanne Befante on July 6, 2005, at 3:30:27
I loved my Dad so much too. It will be two years this coming February 2.
Why is the date so important? Are we afraid we will forget it? It's sort of like a wedding date.
I miss a male buddy.
He was the best .. nonjudgmental, happy @ the simple sound of my voice. His eyes would light up when he saw me. You feel your love returned.
For all, I pray through our grief.
When Dad passed, and still, I've grieved w/ one sister for short long distance times by phone, you all, and God. You all and God have helped me get this far.
How do you ask a 21-y/o son to spontaneously wrap his arms around you and let you pour out your heart? Or maybe a somewhat significant other? Why don't men get it? If you are a lesbian, do females get it?
And now there's some of that 'isn't it time to stop crying' coming at me. I don't like that.
blessings, wishes, hope .. cf
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