Posted by Dr. Bob on November 9, 2010, at 3:29:43
In reply to Re: Along the same lines, posted by muffled on November 9, 2010, at 1:09:20
> > Maybe Babble is like a big version of you. It also has parts, other stuff leaks through, and stasis is hard to maintain.
>
> What my T is trying to teach me is:
> -to accept ALL parts
> -to try and have parts communicate better
> -to get to know the parts and what they want/need
> -to understand that they there for a reason
> -that parts shouldn't attack other parts
> -that parts shouldn't hurt the body
> -to try and not shove parts away, but listen to them
>
> Stuff like that.You got a good T. What I been trying to teach:
> -to accept ALL parts
> -to get to know the parts and what they want/need
> -to understand that they there for a reason
> -to try and not shove parts away, but listen to themeven the parts who are just critical
> -to try and have parts communicate better
> -that parts shouldn't attack other partscivil = better
civil = not attacking> -that parts shouldn't hurt the body
Babble = the body
> Sometimes, a part get outta hand, or be around at wrong time, then ya, we NOW say, we say nicely that they can't be here right ATM and why, but they can come back later. They not banished for long time. Its just we busy and can't deal with them ATM, but we will.
> If behaviour gets bad, then we talk bout it. We try and figger why.
> We not shove them away (least not so often.....) cuz we learning that that just makes the MORE noisy and fussy.
> They be mnore quiet if ya listen.
> I didn't beleive T at first, but it TRUE.
> It quieter if ya listen.
> Sometimes they just scared and want to be heard.
> They don't wanna be alone, they scared is all.
> Same w/babble. Sometimes people just need to be 'heard'. They not trying to hurt, they just dunno what else to do.
> :(
> How can we help them then?Blocks do make some parts more noisy and fussy. :-)
I'm busy a lot. Maybe that's where some kind of Elders Council
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20101014/msgs/969323.html
could come in? They could listen, try and figger why, and decide if the part is quiet and feels safe enough to come back?
Bob
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