Posted by Gabbix2 on December 27, 2002, at 14:29:34
In reply to Tab...what Gracie2 said. (nm), posted by shar on December 27, 2002, at 11:58:42
yeah what they said..
And I don't know if this is your problem or not, but its certainly mine. I tend to catastrophise, oh I'm never going to go out, there is something wrong with me, I'll be alone forever cayse people always ask me why I don't go out, or say "You should go out more"
I can really start thinking it is pathological.
I must be fixed.
Then I realize, there have been people who inspire me to go out, or at least keep in contact, there are things that peak my interest,
its just that these people aren't it.
No damage done if you cancel, you have to force yourself to do enough in life, social things shouldn't be a chore. You've probably told yourself these things anyway but maybe you don't believe them unless someone else validates them.So there, consider me a trip to the external validation department.
Stay home and revel in a good book.
B.T.W you described her boyfriend perfectly.
I'm sure I know the type. Bitchy,pouty sulky, and with this who - knows - where - it - came -from, sense of entitlement. Ewwww
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