Posted by wittgensteinz on February 5, 2009, at 8:23:23
In reply to Re: If my Therapist doesn't call...... » sharon7, posted by raisinb on February 5, 2009, at 8:07:18
Raisinb,
I see your point. I feel envious actually. My T is an analyst and rarely vocalises his feelings toward me. Sometimes I find him cold. He's told me he likes me and after some pushing said he 'cares' and that he 'isn't a robot' but I have the feeling your T has offered far more of her feelings and that has helped you in your trust. I still find it painfully hard to trust him and maybe you're right about seeking a more 'giving' or 'open' approach. My partner always jokes "Dr. X is not exactly Mr. Empathy!". I think deep down he is empathic and caring but he tries to keep it hidden and sees no obligation to let it show (in fact perhaps sees an obligation to keep his countertransference out of view).
Sigh... I feel a bit down about it today, actually.
Different perspectives are important.
Witti
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