Posted by trucker on November 29, 2004, at 10:28:59
In reply to Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE, posted by saw on November 17, 2004, at 1:45:55
sorry i was there way too late tio help.. how did it go? and did you muster up the strength to go? the scattering of the ashes is final but it is a tired ol body that he doesn't need anymore. he is free to sore with the eagles etc.. i hope that brings comfort to you..
trucker
////////////////////////////////////////////////> My Dad's wife will be scattering his ashes tomorrow. Naturally I had wanted to go. All of a sudden I am feeling that I don't think I can. I was with him when he died and spent a half hour with him when he was dead. And then I knew he was there at the service when I kissed the coffin. Now I don't know if I can see him disappear completely in a puff of wind. I absolutely don't know what I feel. I am terrified. It is so final. I need to be there and I don't want to do it and I don't know what to do.
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> Can anyone help me?
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> Sabrina
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