Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE

Posted by saw on November 17, 2004, at 1:45:55

My Dad's wife will be scattering his ashes tomorrow. Naturally I had wanted to go. All of a sudden I am feeling that I don't think I can. I was with him when he died and spent a half hour with him when he was dead. And then I knew he was there at the service when I kissed the coffin. Now I don't know if I can see him disappear completely in a puff of wind. I absolutely don't know what I feel. I am terrified. It is so final. I need to be there and I don't want to do it and I don't know what to do.
Can anyone help me?
Sabrina

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Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE saw 11/17/04
Re: Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE partlycloudy 11/17/04
Re: Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE sunny10 11/17/04
I'm not going saw 11/18/04
(((((((Sabrina))))))) (nm) » saw gardenergirl 11/18/04
Needed that - thanks (nm) » saw saw 11/18/04
Re: Needed that - thanks----anytime dear (nm) » saw gardenergirl 11/19/04
That's perfectly ok, you know. » saw Dinah 11/20/04
Re: That's perfectly ok, you know. » Dinah just plain jane 11/21/04
Re: I'm not going Jai Narayan 11/24/04
Re: Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE trucker 11/29/04
Re: Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE » trucker saw 11/30/04
Re: Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE trucker 11/30/04
Re: Don't know if I can ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE » partlycloudy corafree 12/8/04

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