Posted by Cass on September 28, 2004, at 23:11:55
In reply to Re: 12 step programs, posted by tabitha on September 28, 2004, at 1:56:51
Dear Tabitha,
I have never been to a CoDA meeting. After reading your post, I went to the CoDA website for my area. I was reading about it. I fit some of the characteristics, but I do not fit any of the controlling aspects. Although I still don't know a great deal about codependence, it seems like codependent relationships consist of a controller who disrespects the autonomy of the other person, and the person who stays in the relationship even though it is bad for them. In the past, I have often been the latter. As I've gotten older and stronger, I've managed to get those controllers out of my life or let them know that if they get out of hand, the relationship will end. In any case, I thank-you for your input because I learned a little bit about codependence, and I think the group is probably appropriate for me.
There don't seem to be many meetings in my area, but I am going to go check one out.
poster:Cass
thread:395948
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