Posted by Gabbix2 on November 5, 2004, at 19:18:56
In reply to Re: moving forward » Dr. Bob, posted by verne on November 5, 2004, at 19:10:19
> > > Isn't it just possible to say that you both have hurt each other and agree on that that isn't acceptable?
> > >
> > > Sad Sara
> >
> > > I think it would be wonderful!! for both of you - and the entire board - if the two of you could kiss and make up.
> > >
> > > I'm writing as a friend, but one that is sad about the entire misunderstanding.
> > >
> > > Mel <speaking as a friend>
> >
> > I agree, might it be possible to let go of the past and focus on moving forward? Acknowledge that the other feels hurt, apologize for having played a role, and try not to repeat the past? Thanks,
> >
> > Bob
>
> This is just a polite way of telling Nikki to "get over it" - a kind of peace at ANY cost that disregards her welfare and leaves unanswered the simple question: why her original post was singled out in the first place.
>
That's how I would feel, for sure.
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