Posted by Lou Pilder on November 5, 2004, at 16:02:13
In reply to Re: Lou's reply to Sad sara, posted by Sad Sara on November 5, 2004, at 15:29:39
You wrote,[...am I wrong?...].
If we look at what is happening here, perhaps you can make your own decision about that.
There are several posts in question by NikkiT2 that I have requested for a determination. One is not directly posted to me and that has been posted by Dr. Hsiung to another poster to be acceptable here. The others in question are posts by NikkiT2 directed to me.
I have asked Dr. Hsiung to clarify his most recent reply to me as to if his reply to me means that the posts directed to me by NikkiT2 are or are not acceptable here. NikkiT2 writes that if there is not a PBC for the post, then she thinks that the absence of the PBC constitutes the post being acceptable. It is my concern here that if she thinks that the absence of a PCB could mean that the posts are acceptable, then I believe that the potential is there for others to also think that the posts are acceptable.
Dr. Hsiung in his reply to me concerning my requests about the two posts by NikkiT2 that are directed to me has been asnswered by him to me in a way that one person could think that the posts in question are acceptable and another person could think that he is saying that they are not acceptable. All of this discussion has the potential to be settled by me and NikkiT2 if Dr. Hsiung could write to me that the two posts are either acceptable or not, or if there is a split in the two. When I know that, then this discussion could probably end.
I have pointed out that since she states about her hurt that a discussion between us could contain about my hurt equally. I feel that it is only fair for both of us in a discussion to have equality. I do not think that we are talking about two different things, but are in the innitial attempt at reconcilliation . The innitial attempt could be such that clarifications need to be given and I am always amicable to clarify. If there something that I missed in my resply to you here and if so, I would be amical to answere any things about what you would like to know.
Lou
poster:Lou Pilder
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URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041027/msgs/412293.html