Posted by verne on November 5, 2004, at 19:10:19
In reply to Re: moving forward » Lou Pilder » NikkiT2, posted by Dr. Bob on November 5, 2004, at 16:58:08
> > Isn't it just possible to say that you both have hurt each other and agree on that that isn't acceptable?
> >
> > Sad Sara
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> > I think it would be wonderful!! for both of you - and the entire board - if the two of you could kiss and make up.
> >
> > I'm writing as a friend, but one that is sad about the entire misunderstanding.
> >
> > Mel <speaking as a friend>
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> I agree, might it be possible to let go of the past and focus on moving forward? Acknowledge that the other feels hurt, apologize for having played a role, and try not to repeat the past? Thanks,
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> BobThis is just a polite way of telling Nikki to "get over it" - a kind of peace at ANY cost that disregards her welfare and leaves unanswered the simple question: why her original post was singled out in the first place.
This is also "pressuring" her - another thing I thought wasn't allowed.
Civility sure changes depending on the viewpoint. Mary Bowers where are you?
verne
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