Posted by Gabbix2 on November 5, 2004, at 17:37:33
In reply to Re: moving forward » Lou Pilder » NikkiT2, posted by Dr. Bob on November 5, 2004, at 16:58:08
And of course it's up to NIkkiT2
There is quite a bit of history here,
and ignoring and moving on hasn't worked for her in the past. I think by working through this with Lou she's doing an admirable honourable thing, more than I could do for sure, and In my opinion it's the only way to try and prevent this painful situation from happening again.
I don't think she should be pushed to forgive and forget unless that's the decision she's come to herself.
I don't want to lose Nikki and I'm afraid that's what would happen if history repeats itself, and I couldn't say that I would blame her.
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