Re: Lou's reply to NikkiT2

Posted by pegasus on November 7, 2004, at 15:13:52

In reply to Re: Lou's reply to NikkiT2 » Lou Pilder, posted by Noa on November 6, 2004, at 5:54:13

I agree, and I think it's happening to some extent on both sides. What I read is Nikki wanting Lou to acknowledge how his posts have hurt her, and in response, Lou posts about wanting Nikki to acknowledge how her posts have hurt him. And, maybe I've missed it, but I don't think either has acknowledged much understanding of how they might have hurt the other. I just see a lot of mutual invalidation. Maybe acknowledging the validity of the hurt on both sides would be one place to start.
Although, of course, it's not my conflict, and perhaps none of my business. And there is also a lot more going on here.
pegasus

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