Posted by Larry Hoover on April 27, 2005, at 14:40:48
In reply to Re: spoke too soon.............., posted by woolav on April 27, 2005, at 12:57:39
> Now my husb thinks/believes that i had an affair.
Is there really that big a difference? Some people call what you described "emotional adultery". You went outside your marriage for something that properly belonged inside your marriage.
I'm not trying to label it. I'm trying to imply the sense of betrayal and loss your husband seems to be experiencing.
He has a right to his feelings, and they seem to be rather strong.
I saw your other post, and medication and/or psych issues may be worth some serious consideration, but ultimately the whole thing comes down to how you're going to manage this. I strongly urge you to take some leadership, and get thy and thy husband's *ss to counselling, pronto.
If you haven't told him today just how much it means to you to make this right, tell him now. And if you have already told him, tell him again.
Best,
Lar
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