Posted by Dena on September 6, 2003, at 10:49:12
In reply to Re: My 2nd friend is dead!, posted by Heather66 on September 6, 2003, at 0:13:15
Dear Heather:
You wrote: "Maybe that is true, but some of us are not so lucky to have family and friends to trust ... or even God to count on like you... You are lucky."Yes, I can't imagine what it must be like to grieve without the help of family & friends. Are you alone? Would you be willing to share your own story with us?
I don't really consider myself lucky... blessed, yes. I've been blessed with a supportive family & a community of faith who truly love each other with their actions as well as their words.
But God is available to anyone who needs Him (& who doesn't need Him?). He's always faithful, even when we're not.
"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." (Psalm 34:18)
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." (Psalm 147:3)
"God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in time of need." (Psalm 46:1)
Perhaps this should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Faith, but these verses are specifically directed to those who are grieving or suffering. A genuine, sincere cry of "Oh God, if you're there, help me!" can be all it takes to begin the process of letting Him heal you. It just takes a step of faith in His direction. If we wait for Him to prove Himself to us without exercizing faith, He'll be a gentleman & keep His distance. He doesn't invade where He isn't wanted.
My heart goes out to those who suffer without Him, & with the others He provides for help. We weren't meant to be alone - we're meant to be connected.
Do you think sharing your story would be healing for you?
Shalom, Dena
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