Posted by special_k on March 28, 2006, at 22:20:45
In reply to Re: Porn...what's the big deal? posible trigger, posted by Dinah on March 28, 2006, at 22:14:45
> > I guess it just makes me feel sad that sex isn't thought of as an activity between two subjects.
> Ouch. Forgive my ignorance. I had honestly thought that masturbation was pretty much universal. I don't think I've ever realized I've met someone who hasn't done it. And even my religious book on parenting emphasized that it was a natural activity and not to shame kids for doing it, but to just tell them that it's an activity to be done in private.Aw sh*t. I don't have anything against that.
That wasn't what I meant...
I just think that when you bring pictures / films into it...
That does involve another person.
And that other person isn't viewed as a subject they are viewed as an objectWhat is the difference with fantasy...
?I guess I worry about whether the person really is happy with posing or not...
And I find it hard to see how they could be happy with it.
Some say they are and well...
But others...
And how do you know which is which?
And I guess I just personally have a problem with it because I think a lot of people (typically women yes) are harmed by it.
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