Posted by Susan47 on March 31, 2005, at 12:07:57
In reply to Re:thank you everyone, posted by sunny10 on March 31, 2005, at 9:47:24
I was just thinking, I don't have a will properly made up. I'm wondering if your dad hadn't gotten around to changing his will at some point to make what he wanted, reality. Or maybe he didn't read it properly before he signed it, maybe he trusted someone else to do all that stuff (like I did, at one point in my relationship with my last SO) because he just couldn't deal with the reality of it, and had he known, he would've changed it. Or at least not "lied" to you about it. But then, I'm still a person who forgives others for not knowing all the facts, but I know that's not how the real world sees it at all. You know, the old "Ignorance is no excuse" babble. B*llshit.
I'm so sorry you have to go through all this emotional and financial stress, it's totally not fair.
I hope it doesn't happen like that when my own parents go. I don't think it will, but hell, my father's so emotionally unstable you absolutely never know how you're going to be blindsided.(((Sunny)))
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