Posted by corafree on March 30, 2005, at 15:34:22
In reply to Re:thank you everyone, posted by sunny10 on March 26, 2005, at 1:24:40
:( ((((((Sunny)))))
If I ponder the treatment my father rec'd @ hospital prior to his passing a year ago, I would 'scream out my dissatisfaction' at members of my family, hospital employees, and hospice!
The part I have always played in my family is/was the one of: 'emotion expressor'.
Just a look between he and I was all it took for him to see that I would handle that 'well-deserved anger' @ his treatment/surroundings in the hospital.
That left him to concern himself with:
love in the moment,
goodbyes (something he and I agreed not to participate in),
and love in the moments to come.
All this time you've been helping me w/ my petty (as I see it) probs' and you've been going through this!
I have to say I've never been more amazed in the changes that continue to occur in my life since his passing; they border on miracles. Being real mindful - I think that's how I've realized them.
He and I were close. But, the further away his passing, the more I realize we weren't that close. Coming to that realization; now feel very close to him ... :)
hugs-n-sympathy, cf
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