Posted by alexandra_k on September 13, 2004, at 20:03:37
In reply to Physical attraction and body type, posted by alexandra_k on September 10, 2004, at 19:33:35
Well silly me I'm 5'9, not 5'7...
I am a fan of Levi's as they make em extra long, and I like pants that are long and flared so ya (actually or nearly) walk on the heels. That style seems to be popular (in NZ) at the mo, so there is no problem getting long pants. Though, I am not really all that tall in the grand scheme of things I realise... My pet peeve is pants that are half way between long and short. 3/4 pants. Long shorts. Short longs. They seem fairly popular too (regretably). Luckily I'm not much into heels, I'm quite gender neutral in my dress style. Fond of Jeans and Doc Martins (10 ups steel caps) and long sleeve tee shirts.
I know that transference is not (in particular) supposed to be a sexual thing, but I guess that for me it kind of is. Not that my father abused me in that way, but then most of the father figure types I had (while he was absent) did. I just find that transference is facilitated by height (which sounds really strange, so I was kind of wondering whether others could relate). I do take the point though, that transference can add inches, especially as they are sitting down most of the time!
Maybe it is because I always felt big and oversized and clumsy as a kid. It is nice to meet people taller and more solid than me.
I guess I just wondered because I have always been told in my case that transference is not a good thing. Probably because nobody wants to help me work through it. I am sick of the slack service here. I am sick of not getting treatment. I think I am going to start a rave thread now... Thanks for all your responses :-) I am human after all. Indeed.
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