Posted by inthegloaming on March 15, 2004, at 17:59:48
In reply to Re: dealing with it all..., posted by pegasus on March 15, 2004, at 14:47:22
see, that's just it... i HAVEN'T had that experience. i mean, in mild forms, but... but the link was there before... so i dunno.
thanks for your comments re: my other post on this topic. i've since talked to the person--the girl, i should say: yes, it was a girl, and i am a girl as well--and we've discussed our mindsets now and at the time. she feels REALLY bad about it and didn't mean any harm to me--she just took my nonresponsiveness as an invitation of sorts to keep going. that was my error, i suppose. i just... i wish... i wish i didn't feel bad about feeling bad. what if she's right? i don't want to think that any of this is my fault, even tho it kinda is cos i let it go on... i could have said something--i pushed her away when she tried to take my sweatshirt off. 'sweatshirt on,' i said, 'sweatshirt on.' ugh. well.
g.
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