Posted by pegasus on March 15, 2004, at 14:47:22
In reply to dealing with it all... may trigger, perhaps, posted by inthegloaming on March 15, 2004, at 1:49:21
Hi inthegloaming,
I don't know if I have any advice or explanations for you. I'm in the other camp myself (enjoyer of sex). But I wanted to let you know that I'm sorry that it's such a difficult experience for you. It sounds really hard and painful, and I hope that you are able to get the the bottom of it with your T's help.
The way you describe sex is really common among people who are survivors of sex assault (as adults or children). And understandably so. If you've experienced violent controlling sex, then that is an awful experience. When it's good, it's all about cooperation IMHO.
- p
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