Posted by Angielala on February 5, 2004, at 11:06:24
In reply to Re: Learning to like yourself, posted by Tootercat on February 5, 2004, at 10:55:22
Toots- you may feel like the new kid on the block, but you aren't- you feel like an old friend :) You have an excellent way to view this... I never thought to focus on progress instead of perfection.. such a simple thing, yet it's never crossed my mind. Thank you for a new outlook |=8^D
> Geez, I feel right at home. I too have had difficulties with the concept of actually liking myself and *God forbid* loving myself. People will tell me what a kind compassionate loving person I am and I think "Well I've got you fooled". I know I'm smart and clever and witty as those are the traits that have helped me "survive" my life.
> Little by little I am moving away from being so critical and angry and that is helping. I am also trying to believe more in "progress" not "perfection" and that allows me to see some of the good things which I haven't because I am not "perfect" at any of them. I never believed I was pretty because nobody was climbing mountains or crawling over broken glass to get to me like they would Tara Banks. I am realizing that I am pretty and that it is something that comes from the inside not the outside. Some days are prettier than others. :)
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> Ultimately it seems that the more I feel comfortable with ACCEPTING myself and all of my traits the easier it becomes to be comfortable in my own skin and to love myself. I may not always like myself but do we always like even our best friends? No but we accept them. Does any of this make sense?
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> I don't really know any of you as you seem to know each other as I am a relative "new kid on the block" but I can certainly identify with you and I really appreciate the openess and honesty with which you share your experiences.
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> Hugs,
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> Tooter
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