Posted by Susan J on October 18, 2003, at 10:27:53
In reply to Re: Scary Internet Dating » Liligoth, posted by madwand on October 17, 2003, at 20:15:31
> I confess I was curious the same thing (i.e., why would the feather boa and feminine shirt be a problem).
<<I don't think that's a *problem* per se but more a matter of preference. I too would admire his self confidence and honesty and openness, but it doesn't mean I'd want to date him.
I'm not turned off by height, weight, facial features, hair or lack thereof. But I think an overly-feminine dressing man would not be my cup of tea. The same as a I'd be turned off by a man who didn't bathe on a regular basis. It's just not somebody that I would want to be physically affectionate with, and perhaps would make a great friend, but not a great lover/partner for me.
Yes, that might be my loss. But I don't think it's something I can overcome. And a guy who is most comfortable expressing his feminine side that way deserves a better, or more compatible partner, than me.
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