Posted by Kristi on June 30, 2001, at 23:58:42
In reply to Re: Depressed Niece wants no meds...., posted by sar on June 30, 2001, at 12:50:35
Hi Shar,
I totally agree with Anna.... she is probably scared. I myself was always terrified of them... finally tried effexor a few months ago.. had an awful reaction... so I don't think I'll ever try anything again.
Your doing the best you can... just being there for her if she needs you! She'll come to a decision eventually,, and maybe decide to give them a try. Hang in there.... Kristi> I resisted meds for a long time for the same reason. Got paxil, heard about the weight gain, didn't like the way it made me felt and threw it away after only a week. nine months later i hit rock bottom after a long ride down. went to the psych on my own, i was sick of people saying "but you seem so normal" thinking i was happy and functional when really i want to scream from the rooftops I'M SAD, I FEEL SO HORRIBLE, PLEASE HELP ME. finally i did. i called the psych. last week i sat on my porch debating, Should I go to work tomorrow, or should I hang myself from this tree? Then I got drunk and called the police to come pick me up.
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> I'm 23, i think this is a difficult age to be, and if she's med-resistant, well--maybe she'll realize on her own that she needs help. She will realize it on her own.
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> You sound like a good aunt. Keep being supportive. Just *being there* can be so much more important than trying to do the "right" thing. or maybe you could share your own experiences, ie "going to therapy relaxes me," "wow Pill X has really helped me feel better."
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> good luck,
> sar
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