Posted by mila on June 29, 2001, at 5:56:05
In reply to Depressed Niece wants no meds...., posted by Shar on June 28, 2001, at 22:33:55
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> I suggested some things, and got a blanket "that won't work because" response.Hi Shar,
it seems to me that there is some payoff/secondary gain to her in this situation. She is or might be scared of change.
i would suggest being gentle, not pushing at all. If conversation will happen, initiated by her, refer to it as a disorder/disease whih can be successfully cured or controlled, to insinuate that it has to be treated medically/by specialists.
Encourage her talking about her little successes, everyday achievements, ways in which she controls her life. Once her self-esteem will be a bit lifted, ask her about ways she could go about her disorder.this is a very delicate situation indeed. I admire your courage.
good luck
mila
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