Posted by muffled on May 10, 2007, at 23:22:27
In reply to Re: a HUGE step » Happyflower, posted by gazo on May 10, 2007, at 22:47:48
Ooooh, thats alot of clonopin Gazo, you be careful...
Getting off that sh*t is no picnic either...
Anyhow, my favorite phone call from T was where I has phoned her (all f*cked up) and she called back and left a meaasage where she kinda went on and on bout calming stuff, and how to calm myself, and to keep myself safe etc. And it was the nice voice, and the repition of ways to calm myself, and I think she may even hace said I was a special person, and special to her.
So I would say:
-tone of voice very important (maybe T can visualize you in distress and respond in message accordingly)
-calming technique reminders nice (like 'tomorrow is a new day... etc)
-and LENGTH. I dunno how long message was, mebbe 2 mins? But if its too short then it gets annoying to keep having to reset to re listen to it. If its long enough you can kinda immerse yourself in it....so longer can be better.
-I like that she said she cared
- and don't get all happy at end of message cuz it wrecks the whole tone of the message. Kind and calm and concerned right to the end.
So you could take these ideas in with you?
Hope its a good message.
Some 'click' for me, some don't....
Take care Gazo, you got GUTS!
Muffled
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