Posted by LadyBug on August 21, 2005, at 22:38:07
In reply to Need and attachment, posted by Dinah on August 21, 2005, at 10:11:26
Oh Dinah, why does it have to be so complicated sometimes???
My terapist told me on Fri that I want it to be *good* all the time and it simply can't be that way. Life isn't that way.
I am in a struggling place right now too. I don't know if I want to quit therapy, or continue on trying to figure out what seems I've been trying to figure out all my life and can't.
Are you glad you don't seem TOO attached to him? Or are you TOO attached just in a different way.
My T. is a female, so there is no *icky* feelings going on. I seem to want to see her more often and know more about her personal life.
I find myself sitting in her office feeling like the little girl that has to be good or else her mommy won't like her. My fear kicks in and tells me if I have issues and I don't like therapy that my T. won't want to work with me anymore.
I am getting worn out from all the brain work. I'm wondering if anyone really truely comes away from therapy healed and glad they went. What would the percentage be??? Less than 10 percent???
Hang in there sweetie, we will get through this some how. Kepp writing!
LadyBug
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