Posted by Dinah on August 22, 2005, at 19:11:22
In reply to Re: Need and attachment » Dinah, posted by daisym on August 22, 2005, at 0:10:51
I know I have tons of issues. My therapist says that with exasperated emphasis when I fear that I'll lose him.
But the truth is that I used the transference relationship as an impetus to look at those issues. Without the strong feelings, I don't think I'll be motivated to do the hard work.
On the other hand, perhaps intensifying the work will bring back intensity to the relationship.
It's worth trying. Anything is.
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