Posted by alexandra_k on August 17, 2005, at 21:35:03
In reply to Re: Terrible Session, posted by alexandra_k on August 17, 2005, at 18:13:55
> Have been thinking about this...
> Maybe what I want sometimes is for someone to really walk beside me for a while.
> And, for me, part of that is them feeling stuff alongside me.
> But then most of my feeling states are horrible.
> And so thats a big ask.
> It has to be draining.
> And so they pull back.
> And I can't say I blame them.
> And how fair is it to ask them to walk beside me anyways
> When its such a horrible walk
> I don't know
> :-(...But thats not what it is supposed to be about - is it? Thats manipulating... Manipulating their feelings... Not communicating, spread of affect... Animals do this... With startle responses...
:-(
But then what is it supposed to be about?
And why am I so hard to see?
I don't understand :-(
poster:alexandra_k
thread:542514
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