Posted by JimD on December 3, 2003, at 14:21:17
In reply to Re: Personal question for you Clayton, posted by Clayton on December 2, 2003, at 7:50:38
Clayton,
I'm sorry for you. My heart sank when I read your story.
Regarding the recent decision to get married: I can't help but wonder if she simply 'got cold feet.' For reasons that are far beyond my understanding, people tend to get freaked out by the idea of commitment. Perhaps she simply wasn't able to cope with the idea of finally 'sealing the deal' on the relationship that you had built.
Susan's advice is golden. Get out there and do things. As tough as it may seem to simply pull yourself out of bed, getting out of your house and taking command of your life will help you feel better about yourself.
Best wishes through your healing,
Jim
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