Posted by zenhussy on November 27, 2003, at 2:56:28
In reply to Re: What do I do now? (rhetorical) » EmilyUK, posted by shar on November 25, 2003, at 21:29:41
> Sorry to sound so prosaic, but just take it one day at a time.
> Make plans as your energy allows, and as you need to, but this may not be a time to be taking 'giant steps.'
> As well as you can, talk to your former beau, and you may find a friendship you can still call on for help.
> I can *almost* promise you can survive this, and go on to have a happy life (there are no guarantees).
> Best wishes,
> SharEmilyUK,
Speaking from my personal experience only I can tell you that Shar's *almost* promise is a damn good one. She's got quite a slant on life that is worth listening to or reading when one is at that low point. She's tossed some incredible wisdom my way in the darkest of times.
So I don't have anything to offer to her sage advice. Other than to hold onto her promise if nothing else. Try to let that be one thing to keep you going.
Stranger things have happened. The kindness of strangers here has shown me time and time again over the years how important it is to reach out and believe.
Take care.
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