Posted by garnet71 on February 26, 2009, at 12:02:52
In reply to Re: facing realities..., posted by Dr. Bob on February 26, 2009, at 11:03:34
The dynamics involved in participating in the community here are similar to dealing with problems outside of this website. In real life, you find ways to cope, adapt, and solve problems based upon what you have the power to do. You determine what is best for you and make choices based upon your options.
There are situations we all have to deal with that are, quite simply, less than ideal. Life is unfair. Life can be harsh. We deal with problems, obstacles, societal barriers, mean or abusive people, well everything from A-Z; we can either deal, cope, overcome, adapt, run from, ignore or even strive to change...but we can't control or change the world around us. However, we can change our attitude about how we deal with such obstacles to overcome them or cope with them in facilitating our optimal health and growth.
You can't necessarily change others or aggregate life around you, but you can change yourself. Within each individual lies a power that can be skillfully harnessed to healthfully cope with any all situations to achieve your best. When you're feeling powerlessness--tap into your own unique powers to cultivate balance and growth. Otherwise, you might find yourself endlessly swimming, or even treading water. Don't swim; fly.
My 2 cents.
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