Posted by muffled on February 26, 2009, at 10:11:40
In reply to Re: GHOSTS, posted by Dr. Bob on February 26, 2009, at 8:56:18
> > HELLO DR> BOB??????????????????????? ARE YOU LISTENING?????????
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> I don't have much time right now, but I'm listening. I'm also wondering if I trigger some of you by being absent. Twinleaf mentioned emotionally unfair and abusive families of origin at the beginning of this thread.
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> BobYa you never have time.
You sure don't trigger this one by being absent.
Who cares.
I get triggered cuz I hate to see people who just trying to help get jerked around by someone who should know better.
Its an uneven power differential and I think it being abused.
And ya, it IS abusive when somoene you hold in esteem lies to you, and doesn't help you when you being hurt.
Who just mysteriously not there, even though he said he'd be.
Who keeps saying, I am coming but never does.Hmmmm.
Sh*t anyways, I best move on.
I just care too much and I just can't stand it.
I can't watch.
I got to go.
Just not my style to walk away from my friends.
Where I grew up we allus watched each others backs.
Safer that way.
I can't do that here, I have tried.
I don't know how to not get hurt by this cept to walk away.Not that this has any impact, and maybe you are trying Bob, it just sure doesn't seem like it to me though. But I wish you would get some help with this site. Ya technicalwise, site works great, you good at that, but the more social/admin/human stuff, for whatever reason, you don't get it, and I don't know that you ever will. And thats OK. I just wish you'd accept this and let someone external help you with this site. I can't see the forest for the trees, maybe you can't either. I just dunno.
Got to go.Sorry.
Best wishes to all.
poster:muffled
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