Posted by Sad Sara on November 6, 2004, at 5:19:45
In reply to Re: P.S. Sara » crushedout, posted by verne on November 6, 2004, at 1:24:40
Yes, and because of that I find PBC to be a tiny bit OFF, it is not logical to hit down on people that is not good enough in expressing themselves to be passive aggressive in their words. To read someones passive aggressive respons to you might make you just as hurt, but since it is written "political" correct, you can only assume that it is something wrong with your own emotions if you are not able to see a bit beyond that.
I think that when someone write something that COULD be interpreted as offending (as: I think you missed my point), it should be possible amongst grown up people to say "when you put it like that I feel hurt" and then talk it through like that.
It's different if someone is constantly noted for not following the rules or intentionally hurting other poeple.... but going so much into detail as this makes me think this board has a kindergarden philosophy! A kind of image of the perfect grown up world?
poster:Sad Sara
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