Posted by Deneb on June 13, 2009, at 21:38:31
In reply to Re: Balancing acceptance and change, posted by alexandra_k on June 13, 2009, at 21:33:43
> maybe the thought about change is this horrible notion that one will be feeling intense distress and... not able to express that. that the change that is 'required' is for one to... stop expressing what is going on. that would be horrible indeed...
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> why would someone want to feel horrible distress? it probably isn't the thought that THAT will change, but more that what people are wanting is for one to suffer it alone...That is exactly how I feel. I don't feel I can get rid of the thoughts of wanting to die sometimes. I am just being asked to suffer alone and not express my thoughts.
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