Posted by rskontos on February 5, 2008, at 15:35:31
In reply to Re: OK, I feel better now, posted by Angela2 on February 5, 2008, at 15:18:44
Deneb,
First of all, do not define yourself by your
sister's definition. I noticed in your first post that you said your sister says you are lazy. Well, I think your sister needs a life of her own and to leave you alone. I have two sisters and I have opinions of what they are doing but that is just what they are opinions. It is not the gospel nor does it make it true just because she spoke. You are not lazy. Even if you took only one class a time until you got your degree that is ok.It is your life and your career, and your eduction. It is yours to decide how to run or not run it. I have a 19 year old daughter and I allow her to make her decisions in college about how many credit hours to take. Even my 15 year old son in high school decides the classes to take that are options. Everyone needs to make their own decisions. And to make their own mistakes. Tell them your new cyber mom (Me) says you are fine the way you are so back off. No seriously. We all have to find our own way. Go back to work, go to school part-time. Go to school full-time, work too. Just make it your OWN decision. Talk it out here if you need to. If you are like me, you talk bad enough to yourself, so please don't listen to others who are negative. Even if they are family. You don't owe your sister anything to listen to her drag you down. Ok, that is enough from me.
Think about what you want and go from there. I am glad you feel better.
So, Deneb, whatca ya want to do now that you have thought about. We are here and ready to listen. And support you since you have little of that at home...
rsk
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