Posted by sunny10 on April 29, 2005, at 9:02:02
In reply to Re: ok ill be more realistic » broken, posted by rainbowbrite on April 28, 2005, at 20:17:11
whatever you do, don't run away. I speak from experience, here... just don't, okay?!?
You are at a very important developmental stage in your life, sweetie! Of course it is scary and overwhelming at times. And you put a lot of pressure on yourself because you think you should be able to do everything perfectly. None of us can do everything perfectly, honey, none of us.
You need to let yourself remember that you are human (and humans are not perfect) and that you are under a great deal of pressure right now, but you are strong enough to get through it. Get through it being my main point.
If you do your best, it will be enough for the end result you should receive. I say this in this convoluted way because, well, I don't know what you're studying "for your career". Let's say you are studying to become a doctor, but a part of you way deep inside knows that you won't be happy as a doctor. Maybe you'd be happier as a medical scientist, instead. Use this example towards whatever your goal today is...
Your best, without letting unrealistic expectations sabotague you, will be enough to get you where you truly want to be.
big hugs,
sunny10
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