Posted by kara lynne on September 21, 2003, at 15:29:54
In reply to Re: Bozeman is wise » kara lynne, posted by fallsfall on September 21, 2003, at 8:11:41
and octopi, and everyone else who has posted.
-Love is when you want to enhance the other person's life. He only wants to enhance his own-
Beautifully put, as usual. And a good answer to my question, because I am really grappling with it. He says he's sorry, that he loves me. I have to ask myself if that's enough--if anything is different. I'm guessing we could 'date' if I agreed to. I could come over to his grand new digs, he'd take me to dinner, we'd both be on our best behaviour and we'd do fine like that. For the rest of our lives. I think that's about as far as he can go.
Maybe this idea of someone wanting more with me is just not going to happen. It is possible, isn't it? I know, if I keep acting like I don't deserve it it won't happen.
Back to bed.
dreaming of lullabyes
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