Posted by beardedLADY on January 7, 2003, at 18:24:29
In reply to BODY TO BODY --- JOB TO JOB » beardedLADY, posted by kid a on January 7, 2003, at 17:58:28
> >I'd ask for some of what Alii has that has kept her from eating for a few days, but it would mean I'd have to be going through what she's going through, and I don't think I'm strong enough.
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> I'm not sure what your angle you are coming from here... Lighthearted careless words, or just outright spite.Yes, that's me. Spiteful, careless, cruel. I wonder whether you'd think this way under different circumstances.
> What your saying is basically equivalent to "gee... I'd like to go to Treblinka to loose some weight, but I don't think I could get down with that whole treated like animals thing, also I think I'm allergic to Zyklon-B"...That's obviously not what I'm saying. I was saying I was desperate in one sentence, but I was saying I wasn't wishing something bad to happen.
> To say what you have when someone has obviously been to hell and back comes off as a little cruel to me.
I'm sorry it looks cruel to you, but just about everything I say is going to look cruel to you. There's nothing I can do about that.
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> You may not see those words in an ill light; but honestly I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't.Well, you should be surprised. I've never done anything cruel to you or to any of the "pb expats." Yet many of you are ready to pounce on any little misstep you might find.
I was hoping you guys would get a new hobby this year, rather than scrutinize my every word. But that's apparently not going to happen.
I hope you will one day see the good in me that you saw before whatever made you feel this way happened.
I have never been unkind to you or any of the expats. I wish you would extend me the same courtesy.
beardy
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