Posted by sunnydays on July 25, 2008, at 10:54:03
In reply to Re: sad, scared, angry at T-, posted by Hermitian on July 25, 2008, at 9:14:13
It's complicated with the emailing. I have advance warning that in the summer he only works one day per week, so sometimes if I email him he doesn't get a chance to read it until after session. The large majority of the time he reads my emails, and I have sent him way too many. I'm not defending him not reading it this time, but it's not a huge pattern of behavior. It's something we will work through and resolve. I wouldn't quit with him after 3+ years of working together... it's too helpful for me. Unfortunately, these things happen every once in a while. His message this morning about scheduling was very reassuring, he told me we will figure something out. And he may very well apologize next session - when he does apologize, he does so in person most times.
I had specifically said in my email, "I hope it's ok that I'm angry with you," so his response was reassuring me that it was ok - I don't see anything wrong with that. I have a history of my anger being unacceptable to someone, so I see that as appropriate.
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