Posted by backseatdriver on July 19, 2008, at 19:49:15
In reply to Re: Wanting to connect about desire and transferen, posted by FindingMyDesire on July 19, 2008, at 15:00:24
Sometimes I struggle with not wanting to get anywhere near the desire-for-the-T boundary -- I tell myself, in a strict way, that I already know the T is not available in that way. This is how I avoid dealing with the feeling that I'm unlovable, which a feeling that I need to bring into therapy. Perhaps something similar is going on for you?
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