Posted by Dinah on July 19, 2008, at 11:27:38
In reply to Wanting to connect about desire and transference, posted by FindingMyDesire on July 19, 2008, at 2:28:59
I understand about the depth of attachment. I feel an enormous depth of attachment to my therapist. It's definitely the parental sort. Although sometimes I also feel rather motherly toward him.
It is true that there are some therapists who react badly to clients telling them about their fantasies involving them. But you've gotten your toes wet already with your therapist. She's proved she's able to handle your feelings. That's kind of what trust is made of isn't it? Venturing a little way, and seeing the reaction, then venturing a bit further, and seeing the reaction. And if the reaction remains solidly trustworthy, eventually you venture all the way to full disclosure.
Welcome to Babble. I know you will definitely find people here who understand.
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