Posted by Dinah on July 11, 2008, at 19:52:59
In reply to I think things are changing *long*, posted by raisinb on July 11, 2008, at 15:02:12
By the way, my experience was the same as yours in that it was a sudden leap of faith in him. It wasn't provoked by any sort of crisis as yours was. But one moment I was fighting him every step of the way, and the next moment I had decided that I trusted him.
It took him a good two years to catch up to my change in how I viewed him. I finally had to sit him down and tell him to look at me. To look at the me that was in front of him today, after I trusted him. And to recognize that our relationship was completely different than it was before. I think his trust in me stemmed from that moment, so his was sudden too.
I wonder if a leap of trust and faith is always sudden?
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