Posted by crushedout on May 7, 2007, at 19:22:11
In reply to Re: why i'm touchy about this » crushedout, posted by Dinah on May 7, 2007, at 18:41:11
She doesn't presume to know. She accepts what I tell her: which is that this feels like something I need to go through, that it feels satisfying, and that it feels healthy.She realizes that this is just a fantasy at this point, and that I'm not going to do anything too crazy without thinking and talking it through carefully first.
> What does your therapist think about it?
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> My discomfort has more to do with your investing so much of yourself in this than the actual notion of revenge. I think in the end I choose not to take revenge, but I have been known to while away some time fantasizing about it.
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> Does your current therapist think it's a healthy use of your emotional capital?
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